Why?

I don't understad you.
It is hard to imagine why you don't ever listen to the things I have to say and the advice I have to offer. Or sometimes I would like to have you ASK me for my input, or my opinion. It would save you so much heartache. But apparently, that is something you choose not to do.
On the other hand, I do need to let go. So what if you have issues, or are unhappy? You are a grown person. It is none of my concern. But it IS my concern, and I have never been the kind of person to enjoy someone's misery or pain. I WANT to help.....please let me?